Hi I finally found a safe place to share my story I’m 61 year old female. I worked so hard all my life. My poor bladder and my poop lost control. Just like that. I now have to use pads. Extra thick ones. Sometimes I have to use full diaper. In so embarrassing about my condition. But I’m learning to live with this incontinence bladder. I have had to clean myself up several times by myself.. I have to carry extra clothes and lots of pads clean up cloths. Now I find out a blue pad. I’m waiting to see a bladder specialist in June 23 2022. I pray she can help me amen.